How Can I Make My Cat Like Me? Lessons From Zelda & Clutch

Hi, I’m Dr. Karen! To learn more about me, read my introduction and meet my five comedy cats: Clutch, Serial, Alex, Zelda, and Zazz.

I have made a really common complaint to cat fans that their cats do not interpret their love as much enthusiasm as they would like. That is why some people claim to ‘hate’ cats – it is better to reject them than to be rejected! Many of the cat -lovers will also be aware of this irony that those who do not want or do not try to attract a Flynn’s love are always the recipients of it. Another classic ‘cat-amism’ is that your cat will want to rain with love and smuggler, at the time it is at least easier.

In case: Zelda

Zelda was adopted by the husband as an old kitten. One who had become poor social. Its daily routine usually consists of eating, sleeping, hiding and destroying. He was not interested in playing with toys or engaging with any other pets or humans who shared his home. His sole focus was breaking the kitchen sponge or bread. It was only when she was finally caught in the act that the husband realized that the source of all the kitchen conflict was a sharp, black -haired devil who had entered the shadow of a closet.

Indeed, the husband learned to keep the bread in the pantry and hide the sponge under the sink, but accidents and surveillance occur occasionally, and his frustration was near the blast. As much as he hated her, her conversation with Zeildeda was silenced, frustrated breaths, and food cups were supplied and recovered. Then, for about six months in this invisible relationship, it was as if someone had switched to Zelda, and he stopped his era of destruction and wherever he went, he began to follow her husband, her lap. I jumped and whenever he sat down, he jumped into his lap. . He also turned his love towards Bailey, a soft yellow laboratory, who, in most parts, ignored Zelda’s loving demonstrations.

For a few years, go ahead, and Zelda’s house has become more crowded, with the addition of my, some more cats and many more dogs. Even though she is not behind her husband all day, every day, she still likes to sit on her lap and rub it on her – in fact, this cat is not ashamed.

And when does she insist most about demonstrating her love? This always happens when the husband uses a laptop, phone, or play station console. If he looks busy – balm! Here comes Zelda, and the fairy princess is not easily ignored.

Of course, just because the basis of this escape and growing resentment has led to a relationship of love and love, which does not mean that it is the way to follow it. However …

Reverse psychology

Unlike dogs, whose focus and love threshold has not yet been discovered, and it is likely that cats have a certain limit. Each cat’s limit is different and depends on who is coming from attention and love. It seems that this limit is on the edge of a very sharp drop, and if you cross your allowance, you are strictly rejected, either by a look of violence or rebellion you wish That you will never be born.

Cats like to be controlled. There is a reason why we often say that humans do not own cats, but their property By We laugh about it, but it’s a hollow laughter, which is a shame. We know that if the cats have the thumb, the world will be a very different place…

Back to reverse psychology!

If you have a chance to win the cat’s love and love, you need to show it as if it is all their choices. When and how much they control. We are just here for their bidding and thank them for this. If a cat does not feel that they have control of the situation, they are likely to be bolts.

So if we want to feel the love of a cat, we should let them come to us. Unwanted, standing, and even walk. I am not going to recommend as far asThey mean, they mean“The philosophy for mismanagement, but it is closer to the mark than the attitude of the bombing on love. Perhaps, their treatment ‘apathy’ will be more appropriate, because the negative and punishment is just as isolated, like aggressively loving views.

Cats don’t need friends

In the wild, most of the felin are lonely in terms of nature, only for reproductive purposes. They are not social animals and are quite satisfied with their company. When they have targeted humans in the last 10,000 years, they have become more tolerant in the company, even enjoying it. But the thing is, they don’t Is required This is the upper hand of cats. We are ready to do whatever Whatever is considered worthy of the cat’s attention, but if they are not happy, they go without just backing. Basically, cats got us where they want us.

Cats are loyal friends

So here is the good news. Once you enter the Feline Friend Zone, you do not need to keep your stick Nanchalins permanently maintain. You can bend over, or offer a mess, just don’t be too far away. But if a cat has decided that you are worthy of their time, they are unlikely to go back to the decision. It will recognize an error!

If it looks like I’m angry with cats, I’m saying that wrong. I appreciate them. They are being provided with food, warmth, shelter and safety, and they have not compromised with their integrity. They only ask that we follow their superiority, and meet in a world of cool, quiet and passionate attention. Do not beg, chase, arrest, or cheat; Be patient, and let them come to you. But whatever you do, you won’t dare to get up when you are on your lap!

Best solution

If you want to be about 100 % sure about winning the cat’s love, save an adult. When you bring home and shower love to a kitten, they often look at you with appreciation! But if you offer your home an adult cat that has been rough or ignorant, then hard work has already worked, and you will have a lifetime than a lifetime. Just ask the clutch.